Girl I think you need to take a deep breath. You are causing way to much unnecessary stress for yourself. Also you two to need to privately work things out. To many people get defensive on the computer. Emotions are hard to construe and people say things that are hurtful. Freedom of speech is definately important, but don't consume yourself with other peoples actions. I left a tribe because people weren't debating or discussing things, they were arguing, spreading all kinds of hate. Maybe you need a tribe break if others are affecting you so much. I check out from society if I feel i'm to anxious and could harm others. It usually is for the better, seeing how I have sharp Aquarius tongue at times. Anyways I couldn't really make out to much of your post. It was in weird frustration language. Obviously you are hurt and that other fellow is feeding your anger or I don't evn know what's going on. Deep breaths, nature and warm company maybe could ease your pain or frustrations. *Hugs.